Saturday, March 23, 2019

I have never had a million dollars

Someone saw what I put on my social media and they assumed that I was a billionaire. I get where they might assume millions, even though I'm not a millionaire but I don't get the billion trillion marker.
So everyone wants to know what happened to stedts begravningsbyra and my finances. Here you go.
I deleted important information that is to personal for the web.
That way this is not illegal or liable.
First off- I want to share two different emails that started this. Then my basic situation. 
My father's grave does not show the same date of death as the papers that I received. I don't understand.  ----

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Two different issues listed below. 
Consumer financial protection bureau complaint # - 170503-2062308.

Date 5-3-17


Begin forwarded message:

On Wednesday, December 30, 2015, 2:19 AM, Stedts Begravningsbyrå <info@stedts.se> wrote:
Dear Jessica,

Thank you for your mail dated 29 december 2015.

Thank you for signing the paper we send to you.

My name Is Maria Backman and I am one of the administrators of this inventory. 
Our work Is to complete the inventory in Sweden and see to all. 

In Sweden you don’t have to participate in the inventor meeting, but we have to inform you about the meeting.
It is also our obligation to keep you informed about your rights in the case.

As of now, I can inform you, there is no money on your father´s Swedish accounts, only debts. 
Your stepmother will pay the funeral, gravestone and inventory expenses. 

When our the inventory is made, you will receive another document in English in which you are supposed to accept and return to us.

When our work is totally completed, it may take more a year, we will send you the documents by postal mail.


Best regards

Maria Backman
Stedts Begravningsbyrå AB
Juridiska avdelningen
Södra Vägen 12
SE-546 31  Karlsborg
SWEDEN EUROPE
info@stedts.se

Från: singleton jessica [mailto:withoutreason79@yahoo.com] Skickat: den 29 december 2015 23:15Till:info@stedts.seÄmne: Estate number 550911-0515

Dear  Stedts Begravningsbyra  AB,

My name is Jessica Anne Singleton.  I recently received a letter from your office.  The letter was in regards to the death of my father.  Apparently, you are handling the case.  The case is filed under a number. 
The number for my father's estate is  550911 - 0515.
There is a summons for my presence at the inventory of my father's estate.  I just received this notice today.  The meeting that you write about takes place on Jan 1, 2016.  I live in America.  I am not a well off person.  In fact I am low income here.  There is no way that I could make that meeting.  I am afraid to say that it would not have mattered if you would have given me a year notice.  I am poor and 90% of my income just barely covers the air that I breathe.  I am sorry this is very unprofessional.  I apologize.  
The letter then said that I did not have to be present.  It mentioned that I could have someone act as power of attorney.  I am not close with anyone.  Over here in America, I really do not have anyone either.  My step Mother Annika should be there, but we do not know each other well enough for that.
I did sign the papers you gave me.  I will mail them off within the next two days.
If my father left me anything- I would hope that it could be mailed to me in the postal mail.  I am not sure what happens next.
I will ask my step mother if she will mail me if anything is due to me.
I only wrote this letter because I do not have anyone who can act as power of attorney for myself. 
 And I cannot be there in person.

Sincerely ,
Jessica Singleton
Dewey Ok, 74029



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About ten years ago I was just living life.

I wanted to get to know my father better.
He never had much to do with me.
I had an online boyfriend.
The boyfriend asked
why my biological father was not in my life.
I did not have an answer.
I'm an adult now.
 I should try and extend an olive branch. 
I contacted him.
He told me that he had a lot of money
but he did not tell me how much.
My cousin maiko told me
he sued a doctor for malpractice
and blackmailed him out of a lot.
My father told me he had
five years to live according
to his last doctor visit.
 Then he kept offering to help me.
He wanted to buy me a house and
pay for college.
I turned him down because
I was dealing with medical
with myself.
I'm on a fixed income.
I should deal with one thing at a time.
I assumed he felt guilty about the past.
He was the only person bringing
up the past on the phone.
That was in 2009.
I broke up with the internet boyfriend.
He hired a private investigator.
He watched me in my hotel room
Without my consent.
He told me on the phone what I did
And he harassed me and verbally
 abused me about my fat body.
He looked up adults I
went to high school with
And they contacted me on
Facebook and chewed me
out over the fact that they were harassed.
I graduated from Bartlesville high school
in 1998-99.
I told my dad about my  x boyfriend
Who would not leave me alone.
It was annoying but it was scarring me.
Then I was hit by a truck in a car wreck in April 2010.
Seemed off. I'm paranoid already.
I went to the courthouse and I tried to tell the district attorney.
A deputy sheriff talked with me.
He asked me if I suffered from schizophrenia?
I said no.
He demanded that I go to the hospital and if
a doctor said that I was not crazy, then he
would look into what I was saying.
I went to the emergency room with him.
He told the doctor and staff that
 I suffered from schizophrenia
and that I had been off my medication
for a year. He did not say that
he speculated or was wondering.
He lied. They gave me pills
for my paranoia. I have had a
full psychiatric evaluation
and I do not have schizophrenia.
The deputy sheriff told the doctor
In the hallway where everyone could hear
Him that
" there are a lot of people who would
 pay to see her locked up.
You should lock her up.
The doctor did not.
The pills he gave me
Were for schizophrenia.
Then when I was a patient at
that hospital a few months
later in February 2011-
 I was rapped. They admitted to finding
 seaman in me.
The investigation officer
had drove me to a woman's
shelter once. He told them
not to do a full rape kit.
Then my father died.
Someone hacked my old Facebook page from a place in California that I have never heard of.
Not in five years. No he magically lived another 7 years.
A company sent me a letter telling
me that I should show up for a
reading of his estate/ will. I
said, can't you just mail it to me?
I did not ask for anything.
They said my father had no
money just bills and debts.
I know that was a lie but-
What can I do?
Give them a reason to say I'm nuts?
Then they sent me an email saying
That my father did have money.
I went back and forth with paper work.
My step mother was to pay me in cash.
She wanted to come to the USA to give me money.
She used an online bank called ally bank.
She gave me 21, 480. Dollars.
That was it.
Stedts begravningsbyra said I was owed
174 762 33
In Sweden that is the sek.
When I looked it up online
One American dollar is worth 11
cents in Sweden.
So the sek when I get that
here is close to 2 million.
I never received 2 million.
I only received money once
from Sweden.
I thought that the whole
thing was odd.
Someone broke into my house
 and stole a lot of interesting
paperwork from me .
A pink postal service card
where Rowland stedt had to sign.
They stole the autopsy report on my father and the original summons to the reading of the will. They stole an old copy of my drivers license and they burnt my carpet.
I don't know what to think.

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From: Jessica Singleton <jessica79hallow@gmail.com>
Date: Wednesday, July 5, 2017
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11/11/2015 3:38am
Dear Jessica! How are you? We held the funeral for David on the 5th of November. It was a nice service. Since you are one of David's children I need to get your adress and e-mail adress. The company that I am using for the partition of the estate will need that in order to send you a form to sign. This is so that you eventually can get your part that is due when all is said and done. The sooner you can send me this, the better. You can use messenger. Take care!
11/11/2015 12:00pm
Dear Annika,
I am living in an apartment in Dewey Oklahoma.  My Address is;
141 N Ross PL -  APT   Dewey Ok, 74029
My cell phone at this time is the only form of phone that I have with the outside world;  918-534-7318
I do not have net on my phone.  Its a pay as you go type plan.  I go to the public library to get online.  I would feel safer if any information comes to me through the mail.  It would be better if they had me sign for it.  I have been having problems with things at my apartment.
Thanks for responding quickly. I will pass this on tomorrow.
You are welcome.  🙂
12/26/2015 10:12pm
Hi! Have you received the letter from Stedts in Sweden? It is to notify you about a meeting about the partition of the estate for David. You need to sign the letter and send it back to acknowledge that you received the summon for the meeting. I realize it is difficult to jump on an airplane and fly to Sweden but at least this way you are legally a part of the process. There are a lot of loose ends to sort out and I don't know where this will end. We will let you know when debts are settled. David's funeral was recorded since noone of his family in the usa were able to attend.  I have posted it on a private youtube link. Let me know if you are interested in watching it. Take care. If you have any questions you can reach me through messenger which is bettet than posting private matters directly on facebook.
12/29/2015 2:22pm
I did recieve the letter.  I can get it in the mail within the next two days.  I cannot be there.  They said I did not have to be there, but they said someone could act as power of attorney. I am confused on what would happen if no one acted as my attorney.  There is something that I have to ask of you.  I was wondering if Dad had a bible that he used a lot.  I wanted to ask for it.  It would mean a lot to me.  Also if he had pictures of Grandma Sidberry and if he knew her maiden name.
12/29/2015 8:28pm
I will check if it is necessary to have a power of attorney and how that works. David did have a Bible that he used. We will look over his things and pass on things to friends and family. I am glad that you would like to have his bible. The kids and I will look over everything and figure out what goes where. I don't know grandma Sidburys maidenname and I don't think he has pictures of her. I think the person to ask is Patti. She is more involved and connected to that part of the family. You can reach her through messenger as well. We will keep in touch. Take care!
Yeah to have my fathers bible would mean a lot. I like to read.
From Jessica
04/03/2016 6:50am
Hi Jessica! How are you? We are in the process of finishing up the paperwork regarding your inheritence. Soon you will receive some papers to sign and send back. I hope you are still at the same adress. If not, you'll need to inform us about your new adress. Sincerly, Annika S
04/04/2016 2:16pm
I am still living at my apartment in Dewey Ok.  I will type it in here just in case.  Jessica Singleton  N Ross Dewey. If I move then I will let you know.  I am fine.  I seem to clean a lot.  I read and go for walks, but my life feels like it is in stand still.  I do not need to improve in that sense.  I am one of those people that enjoy being alone.  I am glad to hear from you all.  I think Gabby and Phillip have grown up into great people.  They are so adorable and kind to me on face book.  I hope you all have good weather and I hope that everything is great in Sweden.  Have a nice day. ttyl
Sincerely,
Jessica Singleton  918-534-7318
04/18/2016 2:49pm
Hi again! I saw your note on fb. You will receive a letter soon from Stedts. It would be better to use messenger if you are writing about personal matters because I don't want other people to read information that is none of their business. Shortly you will receive a letter to sign. Again, please, use messenger, not facebook... Take care!
04/20/2016 2:35pm
I'm sorry about the placement of my message.
I have not got it yet. They emailed me back. My only concern is ; I have been having problems getting my mail at my apt. I fear someone has been stealing. No proof yet. I will have all matters looked into.
I am sorry again for the loss of your husband. That must be hard for you. I have already delt with my emotions on that level. Now is that time where I try to figure out how to live with it.
04/20/2016 7:54pm
Don't worry about the mail. The translation of the document was finished about a week ago and I know that they would not have had time to mail it on to you so quickly that you would have received it. I can ask Stedts to tell me when they put the letter in the post so that you can keep an eye out. Grief is a strange thing. You can't bypass it. You have to go through it on whatever level you need to deal with it. Take care. I will try to keep you posted. And don't worry about the post on fb.
04/27/2016 5:53am
Hi! A  letter for you to sign has been mailed   by recommended post on April 22nd. You should be getting it soon. Annika
04/27/2016 12:37pm
okay. I will look for it. So far no show but I am sure it takes a while. By the way how is everyone on your end of the world? Over here things are just okay. I have been thinking of getting a cat but so far not yet. I am still thinking about it.
Love cats. We have 4!!!
05/23/2016 8:52am
Your letter arrived at Stedts recently. I have got the paperwork. Will let you know how things proceed. We are at a different time zone so I will have to stay awake... I noticed that you have moved. Are you still in Dewey?
05/24/2016 1:10pm
Hi again! I have tried to reach the customer service at direct express. In order to talk to somebody I need to press a four digit pin code which I don't have. Normally you would not give out your code but if I am going to be able to deposit this money I need to get through to customer service. Could you please send me your pin code. Take care!
05/27/2016 10:53am
Hi! I don't know if you have read my message. I need some input from you how I can get the money to you. You wrote that it is possible to deposit into the account you have
I just need to know how.
I do not understand why stedts is not doing this. I sent them my information.  They were the ones who were in charge of the money. I have a master card that money can be transferred to. I am about to move in with my mom. I think you will have to call me on my phone and have this conversation because we are hitting and missing each other and I do not understand. I am turning that company into Wiki Leaks. I do not like the way this is going.  My number is 918-534-7318.  Please call me. I already gave them my information.  I will be away from this place all weekend. My cell phone will be with me. So you can call me that way. I will be able to answer to you at any time of day.
I think you have misunderstood. Stedt only handle the legal documents. I am the one who handle the payment. It's no big deal. I just need to know how to get it to you.
If a bank takes master card then they will wire money to a card.  My card says that I can have money transfered to it.  Stedts sent me a lot of paper work and they told me they needed to know where to send the money.  They said they were wiring me money.  So I guess I should email them. I do not want my card information on face book.  That is why I said to call me.
I will call you soon.
05/29/2016 11:39am
Good evening! My mobile/cellphone number is: (46)  Email adress:  
06/02/2016 11:32am
06/03/2016 11:21am
Can you call me when you have a moment. I got a real checking account. 918 534 7318
Hi! I just tried to call you. I saw that you posted on fb that you willinform me about your checking account. I really do not want people to know that. Not that it is a secret but it is nobodies business. Any conversatio n about this, use Messenger only, please.
06/04/2016 10:50am
Hi! I have made a transfer to the account you gave me. It could take up to three businessdays for the money to get to your account. Take care and God bless!
06/04/2016 2:59pm
Ok thank you. I will check on it later. I will let you know asap. God bless
06/09/2016 2:13pm
Hi! I can see that the money has left the account. Have you received it? If that is the case I need to get a statement or receipt showing that you've got it.  My address is:
Äng
Thanks!
06/13/2016 11:48am
I mailed you a card and a confirming page that arvest bank printed out for you. So that you can see what money was put into my account. I do not know how long the mail takes. I hope you get it soon. Thanks again. Talk to you later.
Jessica
Thanks! I let you know when I get it.
ok 🙂
06/20/2016 9:42am
Hi! I received your letter today. Perfect. Thank you!  I will send the Bible to you soon. It may be while I am in the states though.(July 11th and onward 2 weeks)
06/20/2016 1:40pm
Okay great. I am glad that you got the card. Birds are very pretty. Anyway. I look forward to seeing you all .  and I look forward to getting the bible.  Have a nice day.
06/20/2016 10:11pm
Are you planning to come to Tulsa? I was going to mail the bible in the US but it would be nicer to give it to you in person.
06/21/2016 10:18am
I would like to see you all. I do not know at this time if I can get a ride. See sometimes my family goes to Tulsa. My aunts go up there all the time. I will be honest. I cannot speak on other people's choices AND I doubt that I will get that way. More then likely you'll have to mail it to me. But I said that because I assumed that if I did not say it, then I would end up seeing you. Because sometimes people surprise me. You might end up driving here. Sorry about that.  Anyway I will talk to you some other time. Have a nice day.
06/21/2016 12:26pm
How far is Tulsa from Bartlesville? Do they have buses? We could meet halfway perhaps.
06/21/2016 3:38pm
Usually when we drive, its an hour. I do not know off the top of my head. If you knew an exact address of where you would stay. I could go to map quest.com and see the exact distance space and time of driving. The only thing in between bartlesville and tulsa is road, just empty roads.
06/23/2016 11:29pm
We will stay with Kathy in Tulsa. I don't need to know exact distance. It is a lot closer than I thought. I can talk to Kathy. Maybe we can go in her car to see you but I really need to check with her first before I make a lot of plans.
okay great. talk to you later. have a safe trip.
07/05/2016 4:02pm
Hi! I just talked to Kathy. She said that she would rather not drive to Bartlesville. Many years ago she had brain surgery and she has difficulties driving in areas she is not familiar with. But if you can arrange for somebody to take you to Tulsa you are welcome. Her address is: 9.
Hi Jessica! It seems strange to send you a message without the time difference...anyway, we are here now and I will let you know that we will mail you the bible soon unless by any chance you think you have a way to get here before Thursday noon. I just want to let you that I didn't find the book by Poe. If I find when sorting stuff in the basement I will mail it from Sweden. I will also send you some pictures of David and perhaps Phillip and Gabby. I forgot about the pictures and I need to dig around in the attic to get the photos. So, for now, it will just be the Bible. Take care!
07/16/2016 12:41pm
I am grateful for that. Thank you. I will look for the bible  in the mail. I know that I will not be in Tulsa by Thursday. Sorry to say. I am under the weather.  It is a woman thing. I am not pregnant though. Have a nice day. I would love it if I could have pictures of family.  I never did get a copy of the photos that were taken when Dad came down and I was in the tenth grade. That has been some time ago. Now I will be 37 years old in Dec of 2016. Any photos of family are great. I would love that.  I was wondering if you had a picture of grandma singleton or her mother when they were young.  I love photos like that too.
07/16/2016 1:52pm
Ok! It will have to be photos taken by my cellphone of Kathy's album because I don't have any. Ciao!
If she could mail me photos , I could make copies and then mail hers back to her.  That or I could give her money for the photos that she sends to me. If she puts in a recite.
07/28/2016 9:42am
Did you remember to mail off the bible. I have not got it yet.  It is okay. I just woke up. I need to go make a drink for my step dad. I am glad you had a nice trip. I am glad that you got home safe. Have a nice day.
07/28/2016 11:32am
Hi! Yes, we had a nice trip to the US. Kathy was going to mail the bible when she was going to the post office next time. I don't know if she has mailed it yet. I can check. Take care!
07/28/2016 12:33pm
okay thanks. glad to hear you had a good time and that you're safe. yes have a nice day.
thanks
08/01/2016 9:24pm
Hi! Kathy wrote that she mailed the Bible last week so you should be getting it any day now. Take care!
08/01/2016 10:26pm
I got the bible today thanks. I will send her a thank you card the next time that I am out. I will be out this week paying bills at some point. Thanks a lot. It is an honor to have one's father's bible. Especially when he is gone and he was a man of God. I am glad to have it. I only wish that I could have talked to him more when he was alive.
I am glad you got it. Don't beat yourself up over how things could have been different when he was alive. It is very counter productive. I know that he would have been thrilled over you having his bible. Make the most of it and look forward instead. God bless!
08/14/2016 9:21am
Annika,  I was wondering if you could do me a favor?  I wanted to mail Kathy something. I lost her address.  Can you send me her address on here?  Thanks.
Sure, Kathy Lud
08/14/2016
Thank you.  The next time I get a chance to get out, I'll get mail off a thank you.  Hope you're doing well.  Talk to you later.  Thanks again.
12/15/2016 1:17pm
I have a new mailing address. I forwarded all my mail there.  I still live physically at 506 P but I was having a problem getting my mail.  So I got a po box at the post office. I sent you a card. I do not know when you
will get the card in the mail.  Here is my po box number  or address;   Jessica Singleton  P.O. Box  phone number is still the same. 918-534-7318
12/28/2016 9:42pm
How is everyone on your end? I noticed that I do not ask much. I am not social. I am sorry. How are you all?
12/28/2016 10:51pm
We are not very social either...it depends on the circumstances I think. Gabby is off from school right now. A friend is visiting her from the states. Phillip is staying with his girlfriend in a different city for a few days. I will be going back to work soon. I am teaching Swedish to immigrants, mainly refugees from Syria. How are you doing yourself? Sometimes I get a little bit worried about you judging from some of your photos and short films that you publish. I may be completely wrong but the impression I get as an outsider is that you suspect that somebody/something is after you. I hope I got it all wrong though. Two days ago I mailed a letter with photos to you. They are taken from 1997- 2008 but mainly from around year 2000. Take care. I hope and pray that you find activities that are meaningful and give you a sense of purpose. God bless!
12/29/2016 12:01am
I suffer from Paranoia and I write about it.  It helps. I have been going through a lot lately. Which is why my writing has taken the big swim in it.  I wanted to apply for housing here and I was treated very badly. To the point of reporting their behavior. People are rude. Not only that but back in 2011 I stayed at a hospital and then, I was abused as a patient while I was there. It was a horrible experience.  I am well over the biggest part of it by now.  I have just had a lot of stuff to deal with.  My step dad had a stroke and I do his cooking.  I do read still and that helps.
The abuse at the hospital was reported to the police back then. MeriJo my step sister was up there when they came and she heard what they said. So there is proof that they found evidence of abuse. I wanted a lawyer but I was scared.  I just have never had an easy time at letting things go.  I love to read. I am trying to find a medium with myself .  A healing  process but with the paranoia , when I go through anything, then it takes a longer time for me to recover then most. My brain will not let it go.  Understanding it is the best way of dealing with it. That way I do not get upset when I think of it to much.
Jan 3rd, 8:06pm
Hey I know this is probably not needed but I do not trust the bank that I bank with now. I am going to look into a new bank.  The only reason that  I say this to you, is that Stedts told me once that you were in charge of any of the estate of David Singleton. I do not expect anything now. Not after all this.  It is just if there ever comes a day when you have to send me anything, I do not want it sent to the same bank account as I used when you sent the 21 thousand dollars.  That bank pulled a stunt with me.  Money has gone missing with my account.  I do not like that. I am sorry this may come off like I am looking for more money.  No. If there is money that I need then at that time, I would not be asking it of you.  I know I have problems mentally but I have had so many problems with that bank. I keep good books. My mind is not retarded.
I did check my po box and I did not get any pictures or letters from you yet. I am guessing that they will come by the end of the week.
I do not know what is in that letter from you but when it comes , I will let you know that it came. That is why I got a po box.  Someone stole my mail out here.
You received the inheritence and that is a one time thing. There will be no more money paid out. The letter I have sent contains pictures.
That is what I thought.
I am sorry for this money talk. I just had to have it. Because of that bank.
Jan 3rd, 9:27pm
I understand. Have a nice day!🤗
Jan 10th, 7:01pm
Did you send me money in the mail
You called Annika.
January 10th, 7:04pm
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Mon 10:14am
Hello, I hope this letter finds you in good spirits. I got a text and a call a few days back from Western Union. Someone wired me 5 Thousand USD. Then I went to my bank to use the ATM ON saturday. I checked my checking. It looked like a sum of money came into that. I did not go into the bank during normal business hours on saturday... I thought something bad happened.  There was this girl MaryLynn Stinson who has been bothering me.  I do not know how she got my information but she did. So I WORRIED that she tried to take money from one of my accounts. I have a money cd. I am about to move into my own home. So I went to check my balance from an atm that night. I do not want to annoy you. You are family. I do not want you to ever hate talking to me, but I have to ask.... Did you send me money of any kind to anywhere? I am not asking. You are not the problem.
The good news is that MaryLynn and I do not have the same tattoos. I put her picture up on my page a few days back.
Hi Jessica! No, I have not wired any money. Is there not a way to check with Western Union where it was sent from? It sounds strange. I hope you get it sorted. Take care!
Mon 3:41pm
Yes I can check with them but I have not yet. I just got that message. I was busy today. I paid bills and I turned on water at the new house. WEDNESDAY I sign paperwork to finish the deal. The new address is; 218 n Wyndotte  ave Dewey Ok, 74029
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