Purple Rose

It is good to care.  It is better when someone does not take advantage of that kindness and use it to better themselves.  ONLY  to walk all over you and then punch you in the face.  There are few things that I can say that get me by the heart strings.  I do believe in causes like anyone else.  Just not for anyone else.

1. Women against domestic violence 

I used to wear a purple pin at work that stood for women against domestic violence.
No woman or person for that matter deserves to be beat up.

2. The American Red Cross

Everything that goes into the American Red Cross goes back out to save lives. No one that works there drives a BMW, that was paid for with donations.

I have no beef with BMW's.  Those are shinny and pretty in pictures.  Don't turn that comment into anything but what it is.

The American Red Cross actually saves lives.

3. The Salvation Army

There is so many causes that the Salvation Army helps.  They are amazing.  They actually care about people.

4. Breast Cancer awareness.  

I am a woman.  Any silent killer that attacks women is something any woman should fight.  We do not deserve to die because of a tiny germ that has no other cause but to hurt and kill.

5. Single moms do it best.

Family is priceless.  Everyone should have family.  I understand that. I have a big family.  But some times in life, people leave.  You cannot force them to stay.  They do not care.  Or a man is abusive and he'd kill his own.  No woman can live with that.  She really should NOT put her kids around that kind of thing.  So there are times, that you are alone.  Any woman who takes on both rolls, and she works two jobs, one that pays the bills the other job is just that raising kids, is a strong person.  Life knocked her down.  She did not take off to.  She just worked harder to make it last.  Because she loves her kids.  She deserves an award.  The last thing a single mom deserves or as I should say what she should never hear is 
people who do not live her life or do her jobs, try and tell her that she did something wrong.  That , that is why she ended up in the place that she is in.
She should not hear things like;;
Family is what is normal.  You should be ashamed of yourself because you are not married to their father.

No one made that loser homeless.  In fact he works too.  He lives on his own because he wanted freedom from his responsibilities.

He is like one of those losers who just does not want to work.  He takes five hundred smoke breaks at work.  Then he runs around bossing all the other people around, telling them to just do more.  That is annoying.